As a matchmaker, I’m always given a list of things women do wrong in bed. More often than not, your bedroom routine can use a little spicing up. You care about your man and expect him to initiate sex, right? Wrong! A relationship takes work. Sex, believe it or not, is part of that work. Study up so when it comes to sex you can be aware of the things women do wrong in bed.

1. LOVING YOUR COMFY CLOTHES

After a long day at the office, all you want to do is change out of your work attire and put on your sweats or jammies. But, comfy clothes aren’t a turn-on to your man. Men constantly complain that once women are in a relationship (or married), they stop trying. The sexy lingerie disappears and is replaced with cozy clothes. If you want to spice things up, shed those comfy clothes and wear something that’s a turn-on to your partner. Follow these tips so you know the top things women do wrong in bed.

2. FORGETTING TO INITIATE

Men love when women take the lead. Men need to feel wanted, and the best way to show your man that you want him is to initiate sex. So, get involved! Take the initiative and bring your partner into bed with you.

3. BEING TOO BOSSY

Sex isn’t a time to be bossy and controlling. Men don’t like hearing a detailed list of instructions. You should tell your partner what you like, but keep in mind he wants to please you, not feel like he’s back in school. Be positive; he wants to hear what he can do to make you feel great and how it will excite you.

4. INSECURITY ISN’T SEXY

Confidence is super sexy. Men want to date women who are sure of themselves – all of the time. Being proud of your naked body is one of the sexiest things you can do. Don’t hide your curves or the imperfections you think you have. Embrace your body.

5. DON’T EXPECT HIM TO DO EVERYTHING

Sex is an activity that involves both of you. You have to be present. It’s not his responsibility to do everything. You want your man to feel like you’re trying hard to please him.

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6. DON’T WORRY ABOUT WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE

Wanting to turn the lights off or trying to keep your clothes on during sex shows your man that you’re insecure. Remember, confidence is sexy. Unless you’re wearing lingerie with a garter belt and thigh-highs, lose your clothes. Worrying about how you look during sex stops you from enjoying yourself.

7. KNOW THAT HE CAN’T READ YOUR MIND

Men aren’t mind readers. They don’t always know what you want or what you’re thinking unless you tell them. Communication is key, even in sex!

8. PLEASE DON’T FAKE IT!

If you’re faking it, you’re the one who’s missing out. Sex should be enjoyable and filled with multiple orgasms. If your man isn’t getting you there, let him know! Show him what you like and give him a chance to pleasure you. You’re wasting your time (and his!) if you don’t give him a chance to make you feel great.

9. DON’T FORGET YOUR SEXUALITY

Once you’re in a committed relationship, it’s easy to forget about your sex life. Perhaps you’re too tired and stressed, or maybe you’re just not in the mood. Make your sex life a priority. If you put your man or your relationship on the back burner, one day it will burn up.

10. GIVING HIM A DOSE OF THE SILENT TREATMENT

If he makes you hot, let him know! You don’t have to feel like you’re in a porn video, but make some noise. Let him hear how much you’re enjoying yourself.

Every woman should have an inner sexual goddess. Do you have anything to add to the list of things women do wrong in bed?

By Carly Spindel
Source – love.allwomenstalk.com