10 ways to know he is ‘The One’
Not every relationship you face in life would be forever. Not every guy you meet would sweep you off your feet. If something in life is constant, it is the fact that people come and go out of it. But there is that one guy, who completes your search, gets all crazy with you and joins you in this journey of life. So what are the factors that make you realize that he is that ‘One’. I have listed some of those in my below Top 10 list.
1. HE CAN SEE YOU BEYOND YOUR LOOKS
Yes there was that day when you got up late and didn’t have time to be all made-up. Yes, there were times when you had to put your guard down and let your true face shine. Yes you forgot your lipstick and mascara at home and it was oh-such-a-disaster. And yes on these days you felt insecure about the way you look. But he never felt embarrassed to flaunt you or never stopped complimenting you. If he can be with you even after seeing you in your worst look, he is a keeper.
2. HE ASSURES YOU ABOUT HIS LOYALTY
Every relationship goes through its share of boredom once the mushy mushy beginning is over and reality starts settling. There are times when we ladies feel that our man might get bored and look elsewhere. If in these times, your man assures you of his loyalty to you, he is ‘The One’. How does he do it? Sure he may look at many other hot women in the room. But he has eyes only for you! You’ll know it in the way he looks at you.
3. HE PROTECTS YOU
Yes you are an independent woman and no you don’t need protection. But every once in a while, when you play the damsel in distress, he is right there with his shining armor to protect you from all the other jerks in the world, from the insanity of life, from the sorrow that comes your way and from any mishaps that you may face. You can list him in your emergency contact and he will come running even if its 3 am in the morn.
4. HE GIVES YOU EMOTIONAL SECURITY
No we don’t need financial security. We can provide for ourselves. But we need that kinda man who will give us the security that no matter how many hot girls surround him, his girl will still be the one he has his eyes for. If your man shows you that he ain’t affected by the ‘ups’ and ‘downs’ of (read:the opposite gender), he is a keeper
5. HE IS THERE DURING ‘THOSE’ DAYS AND DOESN’T RUN AWAY FROM THE UNSTABLE AND CRAZY ‘YOU’
Oh yes. Not only does he handle the crazy you, but he calms you down and takes you in his arms.
6. HE TAKES CARE OF YOU
Yes, when you are down with a fever, he was running errands for you. When you were stuck on that rainy day with no phone network, he came around to be with you. If he takes care of you even years after you have been together, there is no doubt that he is the one for you.
7. HE STANDS UP FOR YOU
Remember when that bi*** was trying to put you down on your dressing style or when that co-worker doubted your abilities to do something, he was the one to shoo them off. You can do the shooing yourself, but isn’t it so-cute when he always stands up for you and shuts off your haters? We say, that is a part of the forever deal.
8. HE MAKES YOU FEEL SPECIAL
He knows what he wants and he won’t stop showing it to you. He will make you realize just how precious you are to him and how you complete him. If your man tries to make your day everyday, then be assured that you are one of those lucky ladies who has found that ‘Gentleman’ we most desire for.
9. HE IS READY TO GO TO LENGTHS TO BE WITH YOU
He is ready to fight for you. He won’t let you go no matter how hard the situation gets. He won’t take a back-step when you want to plan the future ahead. He will go to any length to be with you and you can rest assured that he will make ‘it’ happen for you both.
10. HE LOVES YOU AND SAYS IT TOO!
This one is so certain. He has to love you and he has to tell you that he loves you. Without that, he doesn’t qualify to lead into the forever-ever-after isle
If your man is the one, your heart will know it for sure. He will do everything in his power to show that to you.
What do you think adds up to this list?
Source – allwomenstalk.com