Ask Yourself These 17 Questions to Find Mr. Right
Some people find their soulmates early in life, and others spend years dating duds before they find the right one for them. If you’re still looking for someone worthwhile, here are a few questions that you should ask yourself:
1. WHAT DID YOU LOVE ABOUT YOUR EXES?
Your exes aren’t completely worthless. You can use your experiences with them to decide what you want from men in the future.
2. WHAT DID YOU HATE ABOUT YOUR EXES?
The list of qualities you hate about your exes might be a mile long, and that’s a good thing!It means you’ll know exactly what types of people to stay away from in the future
3. WHY IS YOUR FAVORITE CELEB YOUR FAVORITE?
Think about your celebrity crush. Aside from his looks, why do you love him so much? Maybe you can find a man with similar traits to date.
4. WHAT QUALITIES DO YOU ADMIRE IN FRIENDS?
The man you end up dating will probably be similar to your friends. That means that you might want to date someone from your friend group!
5. DO YOU WANT TO GET MARRIED?
If you do, then you shouldn’t date someone who is completely against marriage. It’ll only end badly.
6. DO YOU WANT CHILDREN?
This one could be a deal breaker. After all, you don’t want a family man to convince you to have kids that you never wanted in the first place.
7. WOULD YOU DATE SOMEONE WHO DRINKS OR SMOKES?
You shouldn’t abandon your morals for a man. If you’re against drug use, don’t date a man who smokes pot, no matter how cute he is.
8. WHAT DOES YOUR DREAM GUY LOOK LIKE?
You probably won’t date a man that fits all of your preferences, but if you have a thing for redheads, go after some redheads! It’ll make you happy.
9. WHAT DO ALL YOUR CRUSHES HAVE IN COMMON?
If they’re all athletes, then you should probably hang out at the gym more often.
10. CAN YOU IMAGINE A FUTURE WITH ANYONE YOU ALREADY KNOW?
If you can imagine marrying your best friend, then it’s time to make a move on him. The risk will be worth it.
11. HOW HIGH ARE YOUR STANDARDS?
The answer should be: very high. Don’t settle for someone that treats you poorly, because you deserve better than that.
12. WHAT’S YOUR BIGGEST PET PEEVE?
If you can’t stand when people show up late, you shouldn’t date a guy that never shows up to dates on time. There are some bad habits you won’t be able to handle.
13. WHAT KINKS DO YOU HAVE?
If you’re into something particular in the bedroom, then you need a guy who’s into it, too. If you have a bad sex life, then your entire love life will suffer.
14. HOW BIG OF AN AGE DIFFERENCE WOULD YOU BE OKAY WITH?
Would you mind dating someone a few years younger or older? If you’re okay with it (and it’s legal), then you should start looking at boys outside of your age group.
15. DO YOU WANT TO WORK OR STAY HOME?
If you want to be a stay at home parent, and your boyfriend wants to be a stay at home parent, then there’s a problem. At least one of you will need to work.
16. DO YOU WANT PETS?
If you want to own five dogs, you can’t date someone who’s allergic to dogs. It just won’t work out.
17. WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM HIM?
You need to decide what you’re looking for right now. Do you want a casual relationship or do you want someone you can spend the rest of your life with?
Before you can find the right man for you, you need to search your soul.
Are you able to answer all of these questions?
By Holly Riordan
Source – love.allwomenstalk.com