If Your GF Doesn’t Do These 7 Things, It May Be Time To End The Relationship
When it comes to relationships, girls tend to have unrealistic expectations of everything their guy is suppose to be doing for them. I’ll admit it, I’m guilty of this. I’ve been called that “crazy” girl who just wants it all in a relationship and expects way to much from my guy.
Side note to the guys here: Don’t ever call your girl crazy. Just don’t do it, ever. You’ll save yourself from seeing a real crazy beast, and if you think she’s crazy, its because she really cares about you. Remember that.
So guys, yeah girls expect a lot from you, but I’m here for you, I’m on your side. If your GF isn’t doing these little things for you, it may be time to call it quits. You have the right to expect and want things in a relationship too. It works both ways.
1. She’s your #1 fan, always.
If she isn’t supporting every move in your life and all that you want to do, then it’s time to call it quits. It doesn’t matter how crazy or stupid what you want to do is, she should be there to support you.
So, if you want to enter that burping contest, don’t let her stop you.
2. She gives you breathing room.
Very guilty of not doing this, and honestly I would probably break up with me too if I wasn’t giving myself any space. There is a difference between caring and being butt buddies. (Save that for the bedroom.)
It’s normal for her to want to check in every once in a while to see how your day is going, but if she randomly shows up at your job every single day, that may become an issue.
3. She likes your friends … or at least acts like she does.
If she doesn’t like your friends, there is no way you will ever be able to pick between them and her. If she is forcing you to pick between the two then it is definitely time to let her go. If she really loved you, she would never make you choose between them ad her. She is entitled to her opinions of people, but it is better to have her act like she likes your crew than to give you an ultimatum.
4. She loves your family as much as you do.
This one is major. If she doesn’t get along with your family, no questions asked: It’s over. If your family is the most important thing in your life, she should love to be around them as much as you do. If she always puts up a fight over dinner at your parents’ house, or she makes excuses not to go, then she isn’t for you.
5. She can manage her life.
If you don’t think she can take care of a family in the future, then you should probably call it quits. I get it; guys like to be taken care of, girls should be willing to take on a little extra responsibility in a relationship, just like you would do for her.
6. She’s always down for whatever, as long as it’s with you.
Whether this be in the bedroom or just a date out on general, she has to always be open to having a good time with you. Now, I don’t mean you get to call all the shots, but if she constantly complains about everything you want to do, you two probably aren’t on the same page.
7. She loves you for you, every single part of you.
If she constantly picks at certain things about you, she’s probably trying to change you, rather than being in love with who you already are. If you are not completely certain that she loves you for who you, then it’s definitely time to move on.
By Alexis DiZenzo
Source – elitedaily.com